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Are Black women with degrees recklessly having children? Of course not.
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Black feminism teaches us to love men even when they ain't sh**. | Patreon Clip
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Black feminism teaches us to love men even when they ain't sh . | Patreon Clip
The Tedious Misogynoir of Black Gay Men and Masculine Presenting People
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The Tedious Misogynoir of Black Gay Men and Masculine Presenting People
Beauty is still a bad investment. ❤️
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Beauty is still a bad investment. ❤️
Black men's problem is patriarchy, not Black women. | Patreon Clips
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Black men's problem is patriarchy, not Black women. | Patreon Clips
It's stupid for Black men not to care about colorism. | Patreon Clips
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It's stupid for Black men not to care about colorism. | Patreon Clips
The (Black) Community is dead.
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The (Black) Community is dead.
Can young Black women get real love without the struggle? | Black Women's Business
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Can young Black women get real love without the struggle? | Black Women's Business
How Can a "Strong Black Woman" Embrace a Soft Life? with Dr. Nikki Coleman
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How Can a "Strong Black Woman" Embrace a Soft Life? with Dr. Nikki Coleman
Gender is a Scam | The Embodiment of Masculinity
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Gender is a Scam | The Embodiment of Masculinity
For Colored Girls Who Dare to Live for Themselves with Christin "CiCi" Battle
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For Colored Girls Who Dare to Live for Themselves with Christin "CiCi" Battle
Why Influencers Lie So Much | Race, Class and Public Image
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Why Influencers Lie So Much | Race, Class and Public Image
Lonely Men are DANGEROUS Men | The Rise of Lonely, Single Men
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Lonely Men are DANGEROUS Men | The Rise of Lonely, Single Men
Why don't I just date out? | Black Love follow-up
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Why don't I just date out? | Black Love follow-up
Can Therapy Save Black Men? with Dr. Nikki Coleman
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Can Therapy Save Black Men? with Dr. Nikki Coleman
Deplatform @FreshFitMiami IMMEDIATELY
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Deplatform @FreshFitMiami IMMEDIATELY
Black women deserve more than "luxury."
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Black women deserve more than "luxury."
Where Dave Chappelle Meets Donald Trump
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Where Dave Chappelle Meets Donald Trump
Dr. Carl Hart Says Drugs aren't actually bad for you. (No, not even heroin.)
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Dr. Carl Hart Says Drugs aren't actually bad for you. (No, not even heroin.)
Malcolm & Marie is a film for the moment. Unfortunately, this moment sucks.
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Malcolm & Marie is a film for the moment. Unfortunately, this moment sucks.
Yes, you're fatphobic. w/ Dr. Joy Cox and @AmaPoundcake
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Yes, you're fatphobic. w/ Dr. Joy Cox and @AmaPoundcake
Are white women going to f**k it up again in 2020? with Jenna Arnold
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Are white women going to f k it up again in 2020? with Jenna Arnold
The Cuties conversation is infuriating.
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The Cuties conversation is infuriating.
WAP and the Spectacle of Sexual Liberation
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WAP and the Spectacle of Sexual Liberation
Drew Dixon on Russell Simmons' alleged sex crimes and the culture that enabled him
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Drew Dixon on Russell Simmons' alleged sex crimes and the culture that enabled him
How the exploitation of enslaved women created gynecology w/ Dr. Deirdre Cooper Owens
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How the exploitation of enslaved women created gynecology w/ Dr. Deirdre Cooper Owens
Of course it's Kamala! (A community conversation)
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Of course it's Kamala! (A community conversation)
There can be no racial justice without housing desegregation w/ Richard Rothstein
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There can be no racial justice without housing desegregation w/ Richard Rothstein
No, Jesus doesn't want you to struggle with your sexuality. w/ Candace Simpson & Zora Hamsa
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No, Jesus doesn't want you to struggle with your sexuality. w/ Candace Simpson & Zora Hamsa

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @JosephManning-xz6lx
    @JosephManning-xz6lx День тому

    At least when Gwen Stefani rummaged the earth looking for different cultures to appropriate, the songs slapped.

  • @CaribbeanMathGem
    @CaribbeanMathGem День тому

    Does it matter the color of your skin? BTW She is black but who cares.

  • @Bigdaddyblueballs
    @Bigdaddyblueballs День тому

    If u don’t care this video wouldn’t exist 😂

  • @sabrinaestrada3590
    @sabrinaestrada3590 День тому

    This series made me love sci Fi. 😊

  • @DominantBlackMaleLeader
    @DominantBlackMaleLeader День тому

    I think y’all have been conditioned to see the struggling black man as authentic and the upwardly mobile black man as an enemy to the struggle. Either way, idfwu 😂

  • @ITHINKDAFUCKNOTYOUTRICKASSBITC

    as they should. luxury

  • @Na2Ocean
    @Na2Ocean 2 дні тому

    Not with my ex sympathizing with Ryan throughout the series 🙄 🚩

  • @NiconD80
    @NiconD80 2 дні тому

    Too many absurd in this reaction. Whats wrong with not eating kfc? I tried it only when i was 28, and there are few kfc in my town.

  • @user-cd5ki1ip3i
    @user-cd5ki1ip3i 2 дні тому

    Notice how this h00k3r and her cohort were no where to be found when Odell Beckham was being accused for being a Misognist and a predator by Lena Duhnman and Amy Schumer for simply choosing not to interact with Duhnam at some gala but people like Foster come out of the wood work to pretend they care about Beckham when they can use him as a club to beat men over the head with. FOH

  • @user-cd5ki1ip3i
    @user-cd5ki1ip3i 2 дні тому

    Notice class...how Black Feminists can't be bothered with the concerns of Black Men/Boys unless they can use it to promote their ideology.

  • @user-cd5ki1ip3i
    @user-cd5ki1ip3i 2 дні тому

    Yeah, sure...Feminism is for "everybody" because it focuses and prioritizes Women/Girls ? LOLz whut ?

  • @michaelhuffman6429
    @michaelhuffman6429 3 дні тому

    Then dont listen, problem solved

  • @0Lu.Lu0
    @0Lu.Lu0 3 дні тому

    I’ve been there.

  • @0Lu.Lu0
    @0Lu.Lu0 3 дні тому

    IN. EVERY. INCOME. BRACKET.

  • @RM-uk4xq
    @RM-uk4xq 4 дні тому

    “Show up and make my life easier” you’re telling on yourself and don’t even realize it.

  • @e-freind
    @e-freind 5 днів тому

    There can be both a culture/society that values care and caregiving whilst still allowing birth control like wtf are these British ppl talking about ??!? 🥴🥴 Also when you’re a college graduate and a low wage worker 😢

  • @Swayze_S.L
    @Swayze_S.L 5 днів тому

    I got married recently and man that’s a whole different ball game as an introvert. I often have to say Yes to invitations just to avoid an argument with my wife. It’s so annoying. I go to these places and just sit there bored and faking smiles and conversations wishing I could go home. Its such a waste of my time 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @stxlkingbean4011
    @stxlkingbean4011 5 днів тому

    I know I'm a little late to the conversation, but I felt like giving my two cents. About a week ago, the documentary for this play was released on HBO titled, "Slave Play. Not a Movie. A Play," and it caught my eye. I decided to watch your review of the play to see exactly why this play was being discussed, and why the documentary was rated such a low score, before deciding to finish the rest of the documentary (I got as far as the part where a white woman in the audience was letting out her anger and frustration with the play to Jeremy O. Harris). I couldn't get through the first 8 minutes of your video without feeling uncomfortable and disgusted about the play and I believe that these reactions were Harris' goal in creating it. To keep my opinion short and simple, I believe this form of soliciting reactions and awareness is abhorrent, insensitive, and just overall mucky. I understand that wanting to make a statement may result in stirring up conflict, but this play goes, unapologetically, so far in infuriating the masses. It only takes away the respect that I could've given to the artist had this play been created in way where we'd all (people of the African American and white community) learn from it and find ways to be unified instead of causing unnecessary outrage. I, with all due respect, can't understand why anyone would enjoy watching this play. Your review was well put together and helped me picture just how crazy it all looked without having to go see the play myself. Thank you!

  • @Slm99
    @Slm99 5 днів тому

    I still don't know how much impact the 4b movement is having since most Koreans don't know about or haven't talked about it so I have issues with the first article.

  • @robertmugabe2905
    @robertmugabe2905 6 днів тому

    The irony is she didn't want a blk man making an honest living , which actually destroys a stereotype , yet goes and fulfills the BIGGEST stereotype about blk wmn. She got '' yall '' lookin bad out here.

  • @Tryshroom
    @Tryshroom 6 днів тому

    Now I didn’t see this when it came out and Damn!! I’m glad I didn’t . My sista thank you for your great review and your frame of analysis 👏🏿👏🏿

  • @miriammm1312
    @miriammm1312 6 днів тому

    4b is a small fringe movement in korea, its also extremely transphobic

  • @metalopoly2569
    @metalopoly2569 7 днів тому

    Wow... just, wow. smdh, are you still this racist against white people or have you grown as a person? Uninformed take, got the facts wrong, even downplayed the vile racist slurs the black Hebrew Israelites (a racist group imo) were slinging at these teenagers. Disgusting

  • @cptlhunter
    @cptlhunter 7 днів тому

    What structural barriers are going to prohibit black people from going to college? Are we just speaking of the finances? Or are there others?

  • @drama7newstelevision297
    @drama7newstelevision297 7 днів тому

    Anywaysss😅😅. Bm are a joke lmaoo

  • @FishareFriendsNotFood972
    @FishareFriendsNotFood972 7 днів тому

    Louise Perry is just Phyllis Schlafly with an English accent and slightly modernized.

  • @thescienceline9420
    @thescienceline9420 7 днів тому

    UA-cam channel Pocket Watching with JT is a good UA-cam financial person. He is a certified public account and certified financial planner. And he dissects/exposes scammers in the Black community

  • @UKBamagurl
    @UKBamagurl 8 днів тому

    It's hard to engage with men on this topic because they listen to the podcast bros. And you end up trying to educate and correct convoluted ideas while debating and it's frustrating and I just don't know how to navigate those interactions.

  • @leichaurellelux7547
    @leichaurellelux7547 8 днів тому

    33:04 I can understand clearly why this generation is holding out on being sexual liberated. A pregnant woman is more at risk of a high risk pregnancy due to stress and conditions. At risk for baby having mental illness due to not knowing both family history of ADHD or spectrum and the support it takes to raise those types of humans. Society policies in the school system and social media mess. The male may be ordered to pay child support however, he is not forced or may not even have what it takes to co parent properly. Or deny the child and cannot afford out of pocket DNA testing and can give a pregnant woman a traumatic experience the entire duration of the pregnancy. So many obstacles and variations due to not choosing knowledge and marriage before having a kid should you live a regular life vs trying to do what celebrities or very affluent single people are doing because they live above the average income and have above average RESOURCES to help support a child as a single parent. Most young adults are delayed in maturity having education does not make you a responsible parent because you read write and recite. Most young adult cannot comprehend or have cognitive dissonance and too much family, religion and social dictated indoctrination. And severely, uniformed on about 80% of reality fact base life skills and resources in their states. ❤ Perhaps!

  • @djsalteenuts
    @djsalteenuts 8 днів тому

    She’s completely wrong. It actually is about the working class. Why wouldn’t anyone respect a blue collar man? Especially a black man? To say a bus driver is beneath you while going to a sperm bank to get impregnated by God knows who is contradictory.

    • @ForHarriet619
      @ForHarriet619 8 днів тому

      men who give sperm to sperm banks are rigorously vetted

  • @m.patterson3935
    @m.patterson3935 8 днів тому

    I appreciate your breakdown of this. He just released the Max doc about the play. It's pretty uncomfortable but thought I'd try to watch in case there was some hidden brillance behind it....but it seems like he just likes this type of stuff in his personal life and wanted to make a sexually gratuitous show about it. Definitely a niche show. I'm sure there is an audience for it.

  • @mjrtommusic7113
    @mjrtommusic7113 9 днів тому

    Damn

  • @joandarcfeminist
    @joandarcfeminist 9 днів тому

    my view is Louise Perry and even moreso Mary Harrington are feminist in name only, much like many 'libfems' haha. Kathleen Stock is more left wing that Perry, LP's interview with KS makes it clear, and KS pokes many holes in LP's thinking!

  • @charlie0319
    @charlie0319 9 днів тому

    Congratulations on 14 years! You have been one of my favorite UA-cam channels for year now. :)

  • @ChillPhil4U
    @ChillPhil4U 9 днів тому

    Please! No one is coming for uppity black women because they usually always play themselves. The problem isn't that she feels the way she feels and has an opinion, but that she sees herself in a position to have the disposition that she has. This is a woman who can't keep a man and comes across as toxic for ANY man. Why in the world would a man of high value, that she claims to seek and the type she thinks her status commands, want to be with a woman who is materialistic, narcissistic, arrogant, and admittedly is overly masculine. All he's going to be getting is an argumentative, opinionated, egocentric, selfish woman who is going to make his life miserable. If she's such a catch, why is she having to buy a family by paying to knock herself up by a random stranger's DNA?! She is literally going to have a fatherless daughter that will never know the unconditional love of her father and will therefore fall prey to just about any man that showers her with attention and praise. The other children, being brutally honest in the tactless way kids can be, are going to bully her poor girl because she won't have a father in her life at all! How horrible!

  • @floortjepeace
    @floortjepeace 9 днів тому

    I think birth control is actually part of anti-capitalist thinking, considering women were seen as breeders tasked with generating the future workforce (Federici writes about this).

  • @338holly
    @338holly 10 днів тому

    Ignoring sex education has consequences. Porn is not education, but people are scared to allow young people to learn age appropriate sex education. People are refusing to let kindergarteners learn consent because it makes adults uncomfortable. Collectively we've prioritized women and children being taught obedient over being safe.

    • @338holly
      @338holly 10 днів тому

      Sex positivity requires education. In this climate it was always going to fail because the authority wants control over autonomy and safety.

    • @ladybug3380
      @ladybug3380 9 днів тому

      It seems like it’s easier to teach girls to be obedient than it is to teach boys self control and discipline.

    • @leichaurellelux7547
      @leichaurellelux7547 8 днів тому

      Facts, sex is a part of life and to shelter common sense as they age have them delayed. 😮

    • @Jamhael1
      @Jamhael1 6 днів тому

      ​@@ladybug3380 no - the problem is the MYSTIFICATION of sex. Just use the Dutch methodology, and stop the puritanical nonsense on sex and sexuality...

  • @CONTRACTOR_SG3
    @CONTRACTOR_SG3 10 днів тому

    She can't get a FATHER for her child she's failing her child.

  • @purrcatharsis
    @purrcatharsis 10 днів тому

    Federici is now a full-on terf and sadly even her older work has all the flaws of 2nd wave / radfem.

  • @izahra1997
    @izahra1997 10 днів тому

    I'm in the late 20s, have not sexually explored much, which you said you didn't recommend, but hearing about the choking trend is like WTF, disheartening, and discouraging. This is infuriating

  • @Jgotmilk555
    @Jgotmilk555 10 днів тому

    I think your content is absolutely brilliant!! Thanks for the great content! I always feel a little more enlightened after each video! Cheers. :)

  • @lukaj679
    @lukaj679 10 днів тому

    TERF beliefs have become so entrenched in the UK's feminist movement that they circled back to right wing talking points.

  • @91toinfinity
    @91toinfinity 10 днів тому

    I'm from Canada and grew up in a traditional Indian family. I was conditioned to avoid men until it was time to get married. By the time I was ready to have sex in my mid-20s I knew so little about it I had sex with men that I shouldn't have. Reflecting on it years later, I had so much shame around having sex (I still do despite enjoying it...and I'm 32 years old). After a casual sexual experience, I will go into a depressive episode. Why? Because I was told a woman's only value was if she got married to ONE man. My hope with any potential sexual partner is that it will be long-term and when it doesn't, I feel "used". I know it's silly but these notions don't go away overnight, especially if you've been taught from a very young age what is expected of women. I should also say that any girl/woman who was having sex with multiple partners when I was younger was spoken of in a negative light (called a whore, slut, etc.). So that definitely had an impact on me too. I understand why some women avoid sex because there aren't reproductive rights and access to birth control, but there are just as many women who avoid it because of shame. All of them are rooted in a patriarchal belief system and need to be thrown out.

  • @Lucismyname
    @Lucismyname 10 днів тому

    After all that, the answer is to leave your life in health in someone else's hands.

  • @catchinzzs7022
    @catchinzzs7022 10 днів тому

    24:31 - THE BIG THREE

  • @catchinzzs7022
    @catchinzzs7022 10 днів тому

    23:49.- Video starts

  • @UPPITYUNICORN
    @UPPITYUNICORN 10 днів тому

    I'm so personally proud of For Harriet. Braided up, big green chair kimberly, was so TINY, lol. You are an absolute thought leader, its an honor to have been on this journey with you for over a decade.

  • @CamilleGrundy
    @CamilleGrundy 11 днів тому

    I genuinely don’t understand the joking nature of the Bumble ad and was quite enraged. And now I feel like I/ we as a collective overreacted, but minimizing our response as an overreaction does not feel validating. Trying to level with this and I can’t help but to be annoyed by the ad 😭

    • @jaluv42
      @jaluv42 9 днів тому

      I don’t think the ad was that deep. They’re simply trying to keep women on their platform and thought addressing the “celibate” hyperbole that some women do joke about would help that.

  • @MrTwentington
    @MrTwentington 11 днів тому

    Ok I’m so glad you asked wtf is up with British feminists being very conservative! Because I’m a British white cis gay guy who supports feminism and is interested in topics surrounding intersectionality- it’s why I am subscribed to this channel. And you can’t not notice that trend of white feminists in the uk who have conservative views about sex and gender (and a hatred of trans people). I don’t even want to waste time with “not all!” Because while it isn’t all… there is enough for it to be noticeable overseas and for us to have a reputation for it here. So I wondered why? What is it about white people of a certain age who use some kind of progressive label while spouting conservative ideas? Like it’s not even just women it’s pretty common for white middle age middle class British men who were aligned with punk in the 70s/80s to now buy into conservative standards and admonish criticism from younger people on the basis they call themselves punk still so therefore what they and do must always be the hard truth. And to throw it back to Rowling she has very recently spotted a t shirt on her twitter that says “terf is the new punk” Finally I got to talking with a friend in America who is a trans woman about this topic- she frequently asks wtf is up with your country? And between the two of us we looked up some thinkpieces- the general conclusion seems to be that *white feminism* as we know it does exist most everywhere in the west often buys into conservative ideas- it is in America too. But it flourishes in the UK, more than in the US because of the lack of diversity. It’s not that we don’t have racial diversity here but it’s treated different to how it is in America. Like the UK really loves to pretend it’s not racist when it is and this can be in a dismissive and divisive way by design. It ignores our undeniable part in anti black racism as if it’s more of an American issue, it separates Asian people as if they are other to white British people or conditionally British and dismisses their religions and traditions and views as inherently anti lgbtq and anti woman (ignoring anyone who is both Asian and lgbtq/a woman/a feminist). So the middle aged Lisa Simpsons of the uk get to believe they are the most progressive learned leftists who have nothing new to learn no other sides to consider beyond what matters to them. And they do this by dismissing and ignoring whatever may complicate their views that serve them. And that’s how this little island gets known as terf island by… some of the worst subsections of radicalised white British feminists.

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 10 днів тому

      Why are you british people always watching us? 😂 i thought the world doesnt revolve around us? And yet- YOU OUTSIDERS just cant seem to stop watching us if you tried. Try 😂 lol. Youre a white guy british guy watching black women and american culture 😂 typical. Get in line with the rest of them ❤😂

    • @chayo4537
      @chayo4537 10 днів тому

      Ive always known the british aint shit. But you have the audacity and entitlement to be so attached and fixated on america and what we got going on but nothing to say about your damn self. Its very weird. You have bigger fish to fry

    • @user-bq2ko2tb2w
      @user-bq2ko2tb2w 7 днів тому

      I think because a lot of women find trans rights arent always compatible with womens rights which is a fair opinion to have. Also women are being fucked over by society and are allowed to put themselves first.

    • @user-bq2ko2tb2w
      @user-bq2ko2tb2w 7 днів тому

      There is also a huge amount of misogny within liberal politics and the lgbt community